LIFE

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Christmas Rules

The stress level of Christmas can be overwhelming. Christmas season is meant to be a time of joy. But the high expectations of the all the luxurious gifts and competition are not ideal.

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The Thankful Heart

When you start to fell thankful…

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The Circles Of Control, Influence And Concern

I had to learn to let things go. I had to learn how to draw the lines on how to address challenges and where I spent more energy to achieve more fulfilling life. I have created this perspective by defining what I was able to control, things I could influence and was concerned about.

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Why I became a Christian

I was born in a Christian family. Church every Sundays, song practice every Tuesday evening and bible study on Fridays. But this didn’t mean I actual believed.

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Advice on Living with your In-Laws

In my case it was a cultural and financial reasons. I struggled the most the first year as I never knew what to expect.

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5 Tips on How to Sleep Early

It’s challenging to sleep early because there are a million others things needs to be done.

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5 Tips on How to Wake Up Early

I am a early raiser for multiple reasons. I love to wake up early set myself up for success.

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Evolution of Gender Expectations

As you have read the good girl and the nyab, you probably have an good idea to the girl expectations. But I haven’t talked about the boy expectations.

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I am a proud Hmong Nyab

As a young Hmong girl, I was taught that becoming a nyab was my destiny. I hated the fact that my life was decided for me. The expectation was high to learn and prepare to become a nyab; as one day, I will marry.

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How to overcome The Good Girl

As a Hmong girl growing up in American, I was taught how important it is to be a good girl. Little did I know that this would negatively impact me later on in life. As I had to learn how to speak up and most of all I learned how to love my voice.

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