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Treat Yourself

I struggled for a long time because I felt too guilty to treat myself. I found myself asking permission to spend my own hard earn money. I didn't have any financial struggles, so why was it still a struggle to allow myself to splurge. Or just putting myself first. Growing up in a Hmong family,… Continue reading Treat Yourself

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How to overcome The Good Girl

As a Hmong girl growing up in American, I was taught how important it is to be a good girl. This was a part of training me to be a nyab (daughter-in-law). I will share more about the role and expectations of a nyab. Little did I know that this would negatively impact me later… Continue reading How to overcome The Good Girl